Sydney Catholic schools ban formal dating in Year 12, alcohol for parents

“But this new policy (essentially says) they don’t trust you, or your parents, or teachers to behave, in case we tarnish their precious reputation.”

Many coeducational schools in the archdiocese never allowed outside partners in the first place, the spokesperson said, and they will be taking feedback from schools this year.

Last year, St Ursula’s girls’ school in Kingsgrove banned a student from bringing her female partner to the Year 12 prom, but reversed the decision after a public backlash. The Sydney Catholic Schools spokesperson said the ban on external partners this year was unrelated.

“The content of this policy is not a direct response to media issues surrounding school parties in previous years,” they said.

Regarding the alcohol ban for parents, the spokesperson said that schools have a duty of care towards staff and students.

“The focus of these events is to celebrate our students, their school life, friendships and achievements. We do not believe that alcohol is a necessary part of a school event or celebration,” they said.

Parenting expert Dr Justin Coulson said parents should set an example to their children by not drinking alcohol for one night. He said schools also had the right to decide whether partners were allowed.

“It’s a Year 12 party, that’s it. That’s what the night is for. If schools want to say, ‘No, it’s just Year 12s and their families,’ then so be it. It’s completely within the prerogative of the school.”

In NSW public schools, alcohol consumption is prohibited, even for those over the age of 18, at school events attended by students.

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