Psychology: The chance to be alive in friendship

Psychology
My best friend is a sucker for ice cream – what’s wrong?

Many people want to be a best friend or a best friend. A person, if you have a dick and a thin dick, it is so that your sweatpants and greasy hair will probably last longer and last longer, if it is your own. This is the Wunschvorstellung. In reality it can be different in Freundschaften – wie in Liebesbeziehungen – zu Negative Gefühlen, wie Neid, Missgunst und Eifersucht come.

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A friend is ready for lunch at lunch, his best friend will be his eifersüchtig – and he will never eat again. When I think, when I know that I work with a new friend, who knows yoga, I know that. They both have a refinance, when they get close to each other, when they are no longer in the sport, they end up in the office and they are very aware of the standard of living and the interest in the world.

The other ursprünglich “best” friend is not so tol. If you know that you are the Grundschule, in 15 years, and the first period of time in the Großstadt-ganz fell together erlebt. At the moment that I have read the German time in other words, it is not so bad. As a brand, if the best friend will often lose his new friend or that he will continue to do in the coming years – and he will enjoy his whole savory. “Is it not true, is it not even a kommuniziert, or is the intensity of our Freundschaft vermisst? In me is Leben a genug Platz for both”, schließt meine Freundin.

Are you happy with your feelings?

“Eifersucht ist die Leydenschaft, die mit Eifer seekt, wat Leyden schafft”, wrote the Viennese author, Franz Grillparzer (1791 to 1872). A prize that cannot be won or will prove, while he radiates one of our lies and cannot see as self-declared. It can happen that you get a schneller if you take a flight, while you live in the Brüche. Schon Mitte der 1980s, fragmented by psychologists: Monika Henderson and Michael Argyle in a study 150 persons nach gründen for the end of their bisherigen Freundschaften: Woraufhin more than 50 Prozent Eifersucht auf another person as Grund nannten.

If you want to do it again, if it’s once Zweierbindung durch Dritte bedroht Wird oder wir das most glauben. “If people come to you, then they will come behind you Eifersuchtsgefühlen in der Regel Verlustangst or a little self-realization,” says psychologist Katharina Smutny at the time. The best friend who is afraid, that is the number of the Platz, the number becomes more powerful – and explains that it is the best autumn. It can be a passion, that is the Respond to comments, we have been thrown away or not helped well or the Verletzung has had a very good Besitzansprüche.

You can do that

“People are social beings and the like in the “Rule nach Verbindungen, beziehungsweise sind auf diese sogar angewiesen”, erklärt Prof. Matthias Grundmann, Director of the Institute for Soziology at the University of Münster. If a general behavioral dynamic changes, it is normal, that is the first thing that can be done. Versuche dich, wenn dir etwas an der Freundschaft liegt, in die Lage deiner eifersüchtigen Freundin hineinzuversetzen. Who would be the most difficult if the situation were different? Do you want to know if you are not entitled to a problem and that it was more time to ask the question?

Of course it is completely in the Ordnung, genervt von der Eifersucht deines:deiner Freund:in zu sein. Achte nur darauf, das Präch zu suchen, befor eure Beziehung Schaden annimt. Open communication It is the best way that solves a problem and comes out of the world to buy. It is not possible to go directly into the confrontation, you can make a choice, if you do this Time for the person to live. Once it was the case that my sister was in a position of power, reveling in inner power, the power was one of the others.

Every time a Bond is formed, you may attempt to do this Friendly: in the future. If you know that you know and in your probability will know that it is a problem to understand the situation in your bed – and the consequences of it will increase. This is the reason that we can no longer meet. Where it is now at eight o’clock, the topics that are discussed, all those involved who can act, no one is excluded, also Insider-Witze and Co. have a lot of welding away.

If there are no such right blows, a distance can help, a freindschaft in Zukunft wieder aufleben zu las. This is okay, it is not that all friends live for a certain part of the time, but now for a certain abschnitt.

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Brigitte