Communication: 3 Situations in Which Everyone Is Guilty

Many people are guilty when they often choose themselves. If this is not the case, the guilty are generally überbewertet sind. In which situation an einfache can cause a whole world in order.

“You said sorry for things you didn’t even do. I always find it interesting when people do that.”

(“You have dich für Dinge entschuldigt, which you haven’t really gottenan. I always find it interesting, wenn Menschen das tun.”)

The Zitat comes from Matt Haig’s new book, “The Life Impossible.” It describes a phenomenon that ends up in the online media: a person is a default culprit.

Dear women, it is often said that the guilty are much too much. Do you have a fragment? No ground, this is guilty. Let’s laugh? Please spare your “Sorry”. If you are not a woman, it is not that you make a guilty mistake, that you brauchen,machtig, können, wissen, glauben or sind. Wopglich, so one of these, is that there are unannounced guilty in cases where an exclusion of mangelnder Selbstakzeptanz takes place.

If the problem is “guilty” in a certain situation, it may be that others have moments when it is no longer possible. To only call three Beispiele.

Situations where everyone is guilty

Joggerin tricycle dog

If there is no more war, it is a Hund before the war begins. That war deaf. If the war takes place in a beggar, but then I will be the Hundebesitzerin, my friend is hit (and not amüsiert!) and he is accused: “Entschuldigung.” It seems that the Runzeln could not be in the rudderzeichnen. The woman’s grief is “All well, not passive” and a sweet feeling further.

If it is not so, it is often the case that the dogs are not guilty. They laugh completely (fell on shyness?) and if they were excited, who would their Irish Red Setter austobbt. Then I love them selten well gelaunt weiter – without which most people are annoyed.

Großeinkauf im Schreibwarenladen

A Freitagabend, I have received an anniversary gift for my wife and do not want to buy a card in the Schreibwarenladen on the Nachhauseweg. The Auswahl is light, but is located in the Schlange and the Kasse. For now there are three Kundininnen. Don’t do it. If you can do something, it will last a long time and you will stay put. I was happy and satisfied: The woman, who lived in the world, had a great writing experience, could spend a whole year together with her husband. A cashier must scan and pack a single file, a Bleistift, an Ordner, and a single file.

The Schlange lasts longer and longer, Unmut and Ungeduld hinges in der Luft. I am happy with my feelings. When one of the two has asked the big question, one of the officers is supposed to say: “Entschuldig, tut mir leid”. It lies between my nervousness-trance experiences. Ich antwortetete der Frau: “You brauchen sich nicht zu entschuldigen, ie haben das Recht einzukaufen, sie wollen, sie müssen sich deshalb nicht schlecht fühlen.” That’s how I am: I am guilty of guilt. Considering that you have no perspective on the knowledge of others. When it comes to a debt, it is no longer possible to wage war in this situation. It’s a lot of tension. And if you see the feeling, you will have friendly people around you, who do not have any obvious nervous feelings.

The very ashamed friend

Kürzlich wrote with a good friend after his own Monaten Funkstille and began his Nachricht with the Words “Entschuldigung, ich wolllte mich the longest report, …”.

Freut has the feeling that I have reached my goal or that I have experienced a Schweigen war. If it is good, it has become one of the ohren-hoeden, and vertrust ihm, that is my friend, even if the life of someone else comes, it will rest or see us. If the guilt is “guilty”, there is no question of there being a signal, that his Freundschaft is not honest. This is not a correct find and bedauert, when Funkstille is a herrscht.

“Entschuldigung” hat vadere Bedeutungen

Manchmal sagen uns menschen mit een entschuldigung, dass sie nicht glauben, das gleiche Recht wie zijn zu haben, in unserer Welt Raum in Anspruch zu nehmen. Manchmal says that it is a male with a manchmal sagen si: “Ich sehe dich”. It is possible that people make a connection and often find themselves in a certain situation, or they pretend to be themselves. Not everything has a guilty conscience.

If you get a turn, if you are a person who is often guilty, it is a problem and a complex process, while the ground distorts, as you move. Mangelnde self-service or a simple way to play a role. But Matt Haig proposes in his novel nor another Motivation: “It’s like admitting that everyone in the world is a little bit to blame for everything.”it is a matter of sitting longer. “It is a property that is a whole debt in the world.” You can no longer argue. If it is so good that it is so good, it is verzeihen.

Brigitte